How do mother-in-law and mother-in-law influence family relationships?
How do mother-in-law and mother-in-law influence family relationships? Often the cause of family scandals and even divorce proceedings is that the mother-in-law is excessively involved in the life of a young family and considers it his duty to lead a guerrilla war, interspersed with open hostilities, with the enemy of his daughter and his grandchildren, i.e. with son in law.
Do not lag behind mother-in-law and mother-in-law, transforming the life of the young and their child into a continuous war for poorly understood goals.
What is the reason for this strange from the point of view of common sense of the phenomenon?
Classification mother-in-law and mother-in-law
"Our grandmother is an epileptoid."Of all the bad mothers-in-law and mother-in-law, it seems that the least numerous are carriers of an epileptoid character.
The thirst for power, the desire for total control over a matured child, his chosen one (or her chosen one), grandchildren, parents of a daughter-in-law (or parents-in-law), is not concealed. Add here the easily arising anger and the desire to fight with all the light - and you will get a wonderful portrait.
"Compensating". These grandmothers lost in life a sense of significance, were deprived of social status. They are trying to gain an additional sense of their own worth by giving advice and direction and demanding their fulfillment.
"Failed". They chose the wrong life scenario, lived as if not their own life. Now they are trying to give more meaning to their existence due to the unusually high inclusion in the life of adult children. "Now my life makes sense," they say.
"Disliked."These are women, often unhappy in marriage, who cannot “part” with their beloved child, even if it has matured.
«Relay of hatred».When our mother-in-law was a little girl, her mother taught that any woman’s worst enemy is a man. They need to give birth to children, and then get rid of it as soon as possible. In this case, you can take alimony, but you can not take it, as you like.
When the daughter married and gave birth to a child, the mother-in-law, who came to help with the child, "opened her eyes to the true state of things." Then the daughter takes the child and before the eyes of the amazed husband moves to the mother.
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